"Stories set the inner life into motion, and this is particularly important where the inner life is frightened, wedged, or cornered. Story greases the hoists and pulleys, it causes adrenaline to surge, shows us the way out, down, or up, and for our trouble, cuts for us fine wide doors in previously blank walls, openings that lead to the dreamland, that lead to love and learning, that lead us back to our own real livesâŚâ â Clarissa Pinkola Estes The deeper into the world of story I go, the...
over 1 year ago â˘Â 2 min read
âThey're not looking for a story that tells them who they are - they already know who they are. They're here because they want a glimpse of who they could be.â - Dr. Robert Ford I scribbled this quote down when watching Westworld many years ago, and just stumbled upon it again as I was cleaning out my notes. Pretty wise for a fictional character, right? Travel brings out old & new sides to us. Sides weâve only had glimpses of. Hidden, never-before-seen sides. Sides weâve rejected &...
over 1 year ago â˘Â 1 min read
If you've been following me for a while, you know that stories are not solely for entertainment, but for, more importantly, sending a message. I was reminded of this as I breezed through my beach read last week, an enjoyable story of Circe, greek goddess and daughter of Helio. As I reflected on the core message of the book, I felt perhaps the most compelling was that "true happiness does not come from power". This got me intrigued by the theme of power and my relation to it - after all, this...
over 1 year ago â˘Â 3 min read
I was reminded recently that not everyone is wired for creativity like I am. And can you blame them? We live in a society that values logic over emotion, technology over art, and the tangible (what we can see) over the intangible (what we can feel). Men are especially at risk of under developing their creative and EQ skills due to social conditioning, gender roles, and an often global association of creativity with femininity and logic with masculinity. On top of this, if we donât identify as...
over 1 year ago â˘Â 2 min read
Youâve probably seen these sort of posts on Instagram: âThis is not Iceland. This is not Switzerland. This is Kazakhstan!â Content creators are capturing stunning vistas and scenes around the world and waking travelers up to the fact that they can find beauty EVERYWHERE. So what does this mean for you? Maybe that natural beauty shouldnât be your only selling point. When I first saw photos of Slovenia, I was blown away by its emerald green mountains and turquoise waters. But I could have gone...
over 1 year ago â˘Â 2 min read
Itâs a new year, new look! A little playful, a lot fun, I hope it inspires you to embrace your own unique personality in your business this year. Big shoutout to our brand design partners Stina + George for the fab refresh and go check out TheStoriedExperience.com for the full effect! Speaking of playfulness, Skift just put out a new report on the power of play in tourism. 86% of travelers agreed that participating in play activities is important to an overall sense of happiness and...
almost 2 years ago â˘Â 1 min read
Creativity thrives on specificity. Generalization kills creativity. Today, I want to talk about the idea of âtightness of fitâ. Oftentimes when I hear hosts talk about their vision or purpose, itâs fairly general. âWe want to help people relaxâ or âwe want to help people connect with natureâ or âwe want to educate people about our cultureâ. All well-intentioned, but void of magic. Letâs dive into an example. Instead of the generic âconnect people with natureâ mentality, what could one create...
almost 2 years ago â˘Â 1 min read
Temps are dropping in the Catskills and we just got a foot of snow, so I recently started planning a winter getaway to Oaxaca & Tulum. While I was evaluating what felt like thousands of experiences and hotels, I found myself consciously & semi-unconsciously ping-ponging around a series of questions, an invisible checklist in my mind. Today I am sharing those with you. I once read that people decide about whether to stay on a website within milliseconds based on visual cues and aesthetics. And...
almost 2 years ago â˘Â 2 min read
I want you to think of your favorite story. Pull it up in your mind right now. Maybe itâs a book, a movie, a play, a TV show⌠okay, now what I want you to do is REMOVE the conflict from this story. Remove all the obstacles, remove all the tension, remove all the drama. Not very exciting anymore, is it? In fact, according to the majority of storytellers, when you remove these things, itâs no longer a story. So then whyyy do we call romanticized marketing messages that are void of conflict...
almost 2 years ago â˘Â 4 min read