Why are they here? Revealing guest motivations đź§­


“They're not looking for a story that tells them who they are - they already know who they are. They're here because they want a glimpse of who they could be.” - Dr. Robert Ford

I scribbled this quote down when watching Westworld many years ago, and just stumbled upon it again as I was cleaning out my notes. Pretty wise for a fictional character, right?

Travel brings out old & new sides to us. Sides we’ve only had glimpses of. Hidden, never-before-seen sides. Sides we’ve rejected & suppressed. Sides we have been longing to embrace.

The beauty of experience design is that you can coax different sides out of people with the right intentional moments and environments!

The best way to do this is to work backwards and ask yourself: how do we want our guests to leave feeling? Thinking? Being?

You know how much I love to explore and tap into play in my creative process – this exploration of self is essentially role play. In a low stakes, new environment, it becomes easier to explore our innate potential.

Can you think of an experience that brought the best version of you out? What qualities did this experience have?

What do you think were the aspects of the experience that helped you step out of your usual M.O. and embrace a different way of being?

And better yet - what are qualities of experiences that keep you stuck in your usual M.O.?

Everyone has an aspirational, ideal version of self that they are constantly striving towards.

Your experience can bring them closer or further away from it.

Will it?

P.S. – check out my latest article on The State of Experiential Hospitality in 2025!

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